In this episode, we discuss how our future selves are different than we expect.
When we plan, we're in our rational brains and we think we're going to be perfect.
But when the moment arrives, we have to fight our irrational brains.
If we plan knowing that we WILL be impulsive, we take our thinking to the next level.
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In this episode, we begin to discuss how we implement discipline.
Using delaying tactics and looking ahead, our rational brain can out-maneuver our "hot," irrational brain.
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In this episode, Charlie discusses the limbic (or "hot") system of our brains.
When we recognize our impulses and remember "that's not me," we can learn to filter them out and build a disciplined mind.
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In this episode, Charlie discusses how, when we harness the power and positive energy of zeal, we are able to focus on things that are good for us.
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In this episode, Charlie discusses the transition from zeal to strength.
We do this through selectivity, which is figuring out when to hold back our zeal. This is called self-control or strength or discipline.
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In this episode, Charlie takes your questions and discusses how to use the trait of zeal on a day-to-day basis.
We perfect ourselves in this trait by growing through its five levels in turn.
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In this episode, Charlie discusses listening to the good voice in our heads, which says "we should be doing ... ."
By identifying the battles we need to have but that are not in front of us right now, we can level up in zeal.
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In this episode, we discuss how the maximum-strength aspect of zeal helps us move past "boredom," fight off the voice that says we can't, and stay enthusiastic all the way to the goal.
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In this episode, we discuss how good it feels when we are fast acting and build strategies for overcoming the negative inner voice. Then we use maximum strength to take the fight to the end and close out the challenge.
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In this episode, Charlie discusses how all of us have a voice inside that says "we can't."
By memorializing our excuses, we can develop better strategies to overcome the inner critic and access our inner strength.
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In this episode, Charlie discusses how when we live with zeal, we drive our thoughts and actions.
When we sit in the passenger seat, there are benefits, of course, but we learn laziness from the inaction. Being fast-acting helps us push through fear and do what needs to be done.
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In this episode, Charlie discusses how strong the desire to rationalize is, and how using the muscle of zeal can help us be fast-acting and break free from mediocrity.
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In this episode, Charlie discusses the first component of zeal.
Opportunities for growth come packaged in challenge at the most unexpected times.
When we're fast-acting -- we get up and do it even though we don't feel like it -- we exercise that zeal muscle and grow.
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In this episode, Charlie discusses how it's normal to be unexcited about challenging things.
This allows us to push ourselves.
When we bring our Fire to the day rather than our Earth, we lead with greatness.
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In this episode, Charlie discusses the trait that drives real success: enthusiasm.
When we're fueled by passion, hustle -- zeal -- we can easily learn the skills to act, do or speak (or not) properly.
Without zeal, something will always get in the way.
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In this episode, Charlie discusses autumn, the gateway to winter, which is an opportunity to work on our character traits.
If we chase winter -- a time to build ourselves to greatness -- rather than summer -- a time of exposure -- we will be ready when the spotlight finds us.
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In this episode, Charlie discusses how ability doesn't lead to responsibility, taking responsibility leads to ability.
When we step up, it reveals the greatness latent inside us.
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In this episode, Charlie discusses how, by infusing our words with belief and truth, we can build our speech into a creative entity.
This changes the whole process of growth as we condition ourselves to stay true to our commitments.
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In a special holiday episode, Charlie discusses how Yom Kippur is THE greatest day of the year, a day of escaping the physical and reconnecting with our loving Father in Heaven.
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In this episode, Charlie discusses the value of asking ourselves important questions during these special days.
We can identify themes and build mantras off those themes, which become pills we can take repeatedly during the day to help us overcome challenges and negative thinking.
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In this episode, Charlie discusses how we don't naturally know how to be resilient, better, bigger, and it feels like walking in the dark.
If we regularly use our mouths to say positive words, we can rewrite the negative narrative in our minds.
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In this episode, Charlie discusses how our internal commentary shapes how we see and process the world.
If we speak out a positive spin on those internal thoughts, the language we use can change how we interact with others.
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In this episode, Charlie discusses how deepening our relationships with others, with G-d, even with our work, helps us connect and decreases our need to acquire more and more stuff.
If we focus on the material, life becomes a treadmill instead of a ladder.
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In this episode, Charlie discusses the challenges of relating to a Spiritual Being while living in a material world.
By recognizing that the Divine is inside each and every one of us, we can come to new levels of understanding, growth and greatness.
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