In this episode, Charlie discusses how important it is to decide intentionally which things are in the center of our lives.

We will be willing to make sacrifices for those things and avoid being thrown into a state of tilt.

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In this episode, Charlie discusses how, when we look at what others do and have, it creates negativity and puts a lid on our potential.

When we look inside and appreciate our blessings, we move from "why" to "how."

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In this episode, Charlie discusses how looking at negatives as opportunities to grow can create an excitement that will allow us to lose ourselves in what we're doing right now.

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In this episode, Charlie discusses how to empower ourselves through perspective by keeping in mind that challenges are gifts to help us improve and grow.

By controlling our emotions, we can remain calm in the face of challenges and grow from them.

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In this episode, Charlie discusses how "getting back" at someone by feeling bad ourselves makes no sense and is actually self-destructive even though it feels good to re-balance the scales of justice.

Only we are responsible for our thoughts and emotions. If we take responsibility for them, we can separate from negativity.

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In this episode, Charlie discusses how extreme ownership can easily be misapplied and lead to trying in vain to assert control over circumstance.

Instead, when we take extreme ownership of our feelings and actions, it empowers us.

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In this episode, Charlie discusses how focusing on others' issues when we get frustrated disempowers us and leads us to blaming.

Our job is to grapple with, own and embrace challenges, and to fix ourselves, not to actually overcome challenges and fix others.

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In this episode, Charlie discusses looking at the world through the lens of giving.

This creates a feeling of abundance and blessing. Those feelings empower us to seek out responsibilities and opportunities for giving.

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In this episode, Charlie discusses the trap of taking the step of being bigger for a time, then waiting for the other person to step up as well.

If we approach our challenges as a virtual-reality "game" custom-made by G-d for our growth, we can see how we win by rising above.

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In this episode, Charlie discusses how trying to project what's in another person's head is doomed to failure.

If we keep our relationships simple, focused only on giving, they will be much more fulfilling.

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In this episode, Charlie discusses how we burn energy judging others based on facial expressions and body language.

Most of the time, what's really happening has nothing to do with us.

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In this episode, Charlie discusses how to translate every-day emotions to every-day life.

Our minds are programmed for survival. When we re-program them to assume the best and focus on the positive, we rise above instinctual behavior and free ourselves from negativity.

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In this episode, Charlie discusses the importance of treasuring our thoughts.

By guarding our minds against external circumstances, we protect ourselves from others' negativity.

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In this episode, Charlie discusses how circumstances and feelings are separate things. 

When we detach what happens to us from our emotions, we can react in an empowered, positive and productive way. 

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In this episode, Charlie takes questions and discusses how to stay positive in a negative environment, how to journal more effectively by creating space for yourself, and how to build habits +1 step at a time.

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In this episode, Charlie discusses how when our focus turns inward in the face of challenge, we feel alone. 

We are meant to connect with others. 

If we look outward, focus on others and just act, we reconnect and lift ourselves above our challenge. 

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In this episode, Charlie discusses the effectiveness of going over challenge. 

The soul is triggered when it's in a giving mode. 

When we engage in challenge by focusing on others' pain instead of our own, we are able to infuse it with meaning.

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In this episode, Charlie discusses engaging challenge with enthusiasm changes how we remember it later.

In this way, we hack the narrative in our minds, allowing us to see and remember challenge in a positive light.

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In this eposide, Charlie discusses how judging the challenge in front of us puts us in a disempowered place.

If we let go and accept that we don't yet know the value of a challenge, we will be enriched in ways we cannot imagine.

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In this episode, Charlie discusses the benefits of chunking, where we break the day down into small pieces and focus only on what's right in front of us.

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